Relationships are a funny thing. They can be going along great one day, and the next, it's like "huh? what happened?", and it's over. Have you found yourself on the receiving end of the dreaded breakup talk, and not truly sure why it happened, but would like to at least have a second chance to try to figure out why, and maybe fix things instead of ending them? Winning back your ex is possible, and much more so if you follow a few easy rules.
First off, don't ever develop into a stalking, needy, poor me monster. No one likes this type of person about; much less have a relationship with them. No, hard as it is, you should get out and do some thing else. Go workout, do things you've by no means executed, get your mind off your ex, for the moment at least.
Second, cut off all communication with your ex. No calling, texting, or drunken dialing. Take some time alone to figure out what happened to cause your ex to leave. Take an honest inward look to see if there is some thing you did that he or she did not like. Also, get some time to figure out if your ex is worth pursuing. If you have been blinded by love, you could be willing to overlook faults that commonly you would not be able to tolerate.
Third, related to the other two, don't wallow in self pity for an extended period of time. If your ex is still interested, he or she will appear seemingly out of nowhere and make contact. If they don't, pick up the pieces and get on with your life. Be the confident person your ex fell in love with. Before long you'll meet someone else and be happier than you were with your ex. However, if you feel that winning back your ex will fill an empty space that nothing else can, keep the advice from this article in mind, you can win them back!
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